After a child dies it seems that time has stopped and yet the world keeps on moving.  Our hearts break and our minds race and yet no one can see or feel that which is happening inside of us.  We all grieve differently and sometimes the ways that we grieve are misunderstood by others and even by ourselves.  This is why it is so important to find others who are walking a similar path who can truly relate to what we are thinking and feeling.

Retreats presented by A Memory Grows connects parents who have experienced similar losses.  In the time shared during the retreats our children are celebrated and the relationship that we continue to share with them is nourished.  Time is also intentionally set aside for rest, relaxation and reflection.

Parents are free to choose as many activities to participate in or as few.  We understand that sometimes the time away is simply what is needed.  A Licensed Professional Counselor will be leading a group session on grief that is highly encouraged for all parents to participate in.

Schedule (Subject to change depending on focus of the retreat.)

Arrive after 4:00
Introductions, Tour and Dinner at 6:00
After Dinner Activity

Mom/Dad Separate Activity
Afternoon Group Outing/Activity
Painting With Your Heart

Legacy Activity
Group Counseling Session focused on Grief and Relationships
Free Night

Closing Group Ritual
Checkout before lunch time

Available Retreat Dates

*Although we do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions we may not be able to meet all needs. Please let us know at the time of registration if special needs are requested.*

**Due to the limited number of rooms at our retreats, the registration fee must be paid within 48 hours of registration to hold your spot. Limited scholarship assistance is available upon request of an application. If you need more time to pay the registration fee, please contact us at the time of registration.**

Suicide Loss Retreat – September 7-10
Older Child Loss Retreat – September 21-24
Infant Loss RetreatOctober 19– 22
Infant Loss RetreatJanuary 25– 28, 2024
February Fentanyl RetreatFebruary 8– 11, 2024
Suicide Loss RetreatFebruary 29– March 3, 2024
April Older Child Loss RetreatApril 11– 14, 2024


The Retreats have a non-refundable cost registration fee of $295.

This cost includes all lodging with beautiful accommodations, programming costs (includes all materials for remembrance activities, rituals, and Licensed Professional Counselor) as well as 7 meals.  The only thing that is not covered is the cost of whatever the parent/s decide to do during the free night.

Due to a generous grant a large part of the retreat cost is being underwritten.


A Memory Grows Retreats will be held at the beautiful Farmstone, a Texas Sized Luxury Retreat.  The Farmstone is located a short 45-50 minute drive from Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport, near the city of Terrell, Texas.

All rooms include beautiful accommodations and most rooms include private baths.

The Farmstone is located on 40 beautiful acres with trees, ponds, opportunities for kayaking, paddle boating, bike riding, fishing, walking and relaxing on the peaceful grounds.  .